I was open, honest, safe, and respectful of my partners. I'm gay, but I hooked up with a handful of men and women in my 30s. I saw him a year later, and his girlfriend joked to me, 'So, you're the one who gave my boyfriend the best head of his life? Thanks for that.' Then I joked, 'I could always teach you.' It was hilarious.' Two of his buddies were like, 'How do you know him?' He answered, 'We hooked up a few weeks ago.' His buddies got all homophobic on him, so he asked, 'You guys have never messed around with another guy?' They both got really quiet. I ran into him two weeks later at a bar, and he was just as nice. 'When I was in my 30s, I hooked up with this straight lumberjack-type guy.
